With Thanksgiving in a few short days and Christmas only a few shorts weeks after that, I want to stop, collaborate and listen. Just kidding, I save that for the dance floor.
Back to my post :). This time of year, I find myself thinking often of my family. It’s such a huge part of of the holiday season and one I am so incredibly thankful for, like my brother and sister. From 87 million inside jokes to staying close, life would be incredibly dull without them, so I figured, why not share about them?
And I’m much better with written words than in person, so here we go.
If I ever write a book, these two will definitely be in the dedication. They were forced to love me early on ;), but thankfully have chosen to as well.
I love that we are each so different. Trust me, we are. Take my brother and I. We might look like twins, but outside of looks we are opposites. Example 1: In a crowd of new people, if I’m by myself, my stress level sky rockets. Hello introvert (unless Tolkien, C.S. Lewis or The Walking Dead comes up, then I’m your bff). My brother? He can talk to anyone, anywhere and become instant friends. I’m pretty sure when we were in Europe, he became friends with the entire nation of France. I actually stress out for him when it comes to meeting people.
Then there’s my sister. I think she’s the Jane and I’m Lizzie. She looks for the best in everyone and is sweet, compassionate and giving. It’s fun to see the traits her little girls have from her as well. She also works in accounting to which I say: No ma’am.
I think it’s these differences that make our sibling-ship (new made up word for the day!) work so well. Where one is weak, the other two step up. By no means do we have it together, TRUST ME, but I know we’re always striving to support and encourage one another.
“I know that in my weakness I am stronger
It’s your love that brings me home.” NEEDTOBREATHE
We are all very close, but that doesn’t mean there hasn’t been or will be hard times and trying times. Whether having to watch one of them struggle while doing my best to encourage and support (wishing I could take on the pain or hurt) or praying as they make a major life decision that changes our dynamics (like when I moved a mere 1,300 miles away). But through those times, we’ve come out stronger and I’m so grateful and thankful (words are never enough) that our foundation rests in Christ. I truly 100% believe that is why our bond has deepened so much over the past decade and a half.
I’m not saying it’s all peaches and cream in the world of families. We’ve all seen this (whether in our own families or in people we know). People make hurtful decisions, people hold grudges, people are stubborn and prideful. People sometimes don’t even realize they caused pain. But y’all, I just want to say this: choose forgiveness. Choose mercy. Choose grace. Choose love. There is so much freedom in that. Does that mean everything will be mended and healed instantly and everyone will move on in life skipping while holding hands? No, but don’t let that deter you. There’s something beautiful that awaits!
And what do you know, a favorite song from NEEDTOBREATHE fits perfectly for this post (I know I’ve used it before, but I can’t help it if it’s the perfect song). ‘Brother’ is a song I can listen to anytime, but I love it especially thinking about my brother and sister. Because I know I can depend on these two. I know if I needed to call them at 3:00 a.m., they would answer. I know that when I tell them I’m moving across the country, even if it’s hard, they’ll cheer me on. I know they’ll share truth with me and pray for me. I know they’ll always love me.
And you know what? I’ll do the exact same for them.
“Brother let me be your shelter
I’ll never leave you all alone
I can be the one you call
When you’re low
Brother let me be your fortress
When the night winds are driving on
Be the one to light the way
Bring you home.”
I’d love to hear from you as well! What are some relationships you’re thankful for this holiday season?
We’ll close out with one more: