For Those We Call Brother & Sister

With Thanksgiving in a few short days and Christmas only a few shorts weeks after that, I want to stop, collaborate and listen. Just kidding, I save that for the dance floor.

Back to my post :). This time of year, I find myself thinking often of my family. It’s such a huge part of of the holiday season and one I am so incredibly thankful for, like my brother and sister. From 87 million inside jokes to staying close, life would be incredibly dull without them, so I figured, why not share about them?

And I’m much better with written words than in person, so here we go.

If I ever write a book, these two will definitely be in the dedication. They were forced to love me early on ;), but thankfully have chosen to as well.

Puppies folks. Puppies.

Hello 80s and little puppies!

I love that we are each so different. Trust me, we are. Take my brother and I. We might look like twins, but outside of looks we are opposites. Example 1: In a crowd of new people, if I’m by myself, my stress level sky rockets. Hello introvert (unless Tolkien, C.S. Lewis or The Walking Dead comes up, then I’m your bff). My brother? He can talk to anyone, anywhere and become instant friends. I’m pretty sure when we were in Europe, he became friends with the entire nation of France. I actually stress out for him when it comes to meeting people.

Then there’s my sister. I think she’s the Jane and I’m Lizzie. She looks for the best in everyone and is sweet, compassionate and giving. It’s fun to see the traits her little girls have from her as well. She also works in accounting to which I say: No ma’am.

I think it’s these differences that make our sibling-ship (new made up word for the day!) work so well. Where one is weak, the other two step up. By no means do we have it together, TRUST ME, but I know we’re always striving to support and encourage one another.

“I know that in my weakness I am stronger
It’s your love that brings me home.” NEEDTOBREATHE

We are all very close, but that doesn’t mean there hasn’t been or will be hard times and trying times. Whether having to watch one of them struggle while doing my best to encourage and support (wishing I could take on the pain or hurt) or praying as they make a major life decision that changes our dynamics (like when I moved a mere 1,300 miles away). But through those times, we’ve come out stronger and I’m so grateful and thankful (words are never enough) that our foundation rests in Christ. I truly 100% believe that is why our bond has deepened so much over the past decade and a half.

As you can see, we're also known for our incredible hair and clothing choices.

As you can see, we’re also known for our incredible hair and clothing choices.

I’m not saying it’s all peaches and cream in the world of families. We’ve all seen this (whether in our own families or in people we know). People make hurtful decisions, people hold grudges, people are stubborn and prideful. People sometimes don’t even realize they caused pain. But y’all, I just want to say this: choose forgiveness. Choose mercy. Choose grace. Choose love. There is so much freedom in that. Does that mean everything will be mended and healed instantly and everyone will move on in life skipping while holding hands? No, but don’t let that deter you. There’s something beautiful that awaits!

We like weddings.

We like weddings.

These two....(plus my adorable niece)

These two….(plus my adorable niece)

And what do you know, a favorite song from NEEDTOBREATHE fits perfectly for this post (I know I’ve used it before, but I can’t help it if it’s the perfect song). ‘Brother’ is a song I can listen to anytime, but I love it especially thinking about my brother and sister. Because I know I can depend on these two. I know if I needed to call them at 3:00 a.m., they would answer. I know that when I tell them I’m moving across the country, even if it’s hard, they’ll cheer me on. I know they’ll share truth with me and pray for me. I know they’ll always love me.

And you know what? I’ll do the exact same for them.

“Brother let me be your shelter
I’ll never leave you all alone
I can be the one you call
When you’re low
Brother let me be your fortress
When the night winds are driving on
Be the one to light the way
Bring you home.”

I’d love to hear from you as well! What are some relationships you’re thankful for this holiday season?

We’ll close out with one more:

I'm pretty sure we almost knocked down the entire tapestry behind us. Our bad!

I’m pretty sure we almost knocked down the entire tapestry behind us trying to take this photo. Our bad!

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4 thoughts on “For Those We Call Brother & Sister

  1. Ganise says:

    NAWWW! You guys! Too cute! *big smile* That first picture just melted me – oh my gosh I think I’ll stare at it for a while now – the second one made me chuckle (especially its caption) and I find all of them BEAUTIFUL.

    Love the heart in this post. ”Choose mercy. Choose grace. Choose love. There is so much freedom in that. Does that mean everything will be mended and healed instantly and everyone will move on in life skipping while holding hands? No, but don’t let that deter you. There’s something beautiful that awaits!”

    So good, Jamie! Bless your bond with your siblings. I only have one. I can relate to things not always being easy but at the end of the day we both come to the conclusion that we’re family and we stick together.

    • jamielynne82 says:

      Thanks so much for commenting! It makes me happy to know our relationship can encourage others :).

      I love that too – at the end of the day, family is family! Blessings on you too!

  2. Katherine Scott Jones says:

    Love. This. Post. I saved it for two days because I was too busy to really savor it and I knew I’d want to (once I saw the pics–dead giveaway it was going to be a winner). Y’all are too cute for anything. Love the hair. Love the clothes. LOVE the smiles. Oh, and that niece of yours? Oh my. Words fail. Anyhoo, thx for sharing. Oh, and me? I too love my brothers to pieces. More on that another day, but thx for reminding me to tell them so this T’giving.

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